Hundreds of thousands of Americans reside in assisted living communities today. The move to a community can be overwhelming, particularly for seniors who have lived in their homes for decades. Family members should take steps to make assisted living feel like home for a smooth transition.
Seniors may be moving into assisted living because they have health concerns, need help with activities of daily living, or want a more supportive environment. Regardless of why they are, the following tips will help ease the transition. Families should participate in this process to help the seniors complete these steps.
Planning the Move
Any move into assisted living should be planned well before moving day. Being organized and prepared will help everyone. The right community must be selected. When choosing a community, consider the seniors’ needs, lifestyle, and preferences. Learn about the services offered, the community layout, and the provided activities. However, the most important thing is to confirm that the community can provide the care and social atmosphere the seniors need.
Selecting a Community
After visiting several communities, family members should sit down with the seniors and discuss which one best suits them. The senior should have the final say in which community is selected unless there are safety concerns with that community. When they have a choice, they will feel like they have more control over the situation, which will help make the move easier.
Moving Checklist
Every senior should have a moving checklist so they won’t worry about forgetting something. This checklist should cover everything from downsizing to settling into the new space. With the checklist, the senior can move through tasks and share the list with others so they can help wherever possible.
Settling In
When seniors arrive at the community with their belongings, family members should help them set things up. Pull out a few special items and help the seniors decide where to place them. Allow them to arrange things as they please. They can make adjustments once they have been there for a few days or weeks.
Once the room has been set up, spend time exploring the community. Ensure they know where to find the dining room and activity spaces. Help them plan a routine for the first few days. This routine will probably change once they become more comfortable within the community, but they will be comforted knowing what they are expected to do next until they begin to meet people and get to know them.
Encourage them to socialize with residents. If they know the names of some residents, they will feel better when the family leaves. They won’t feel isolated and will be encouraged to join in social events and recreational activities. Breaking the ice is often the hardest part, so family members should help facilitate the process.
Family members should encourage this socialization but be available for emotional support during the transition. Seniors may feel sad, anxious, and frustrated during this transition. The family must be patient and understanding and try to find ways to help them settle in. Regular visits will help the seniors feel like they are still part of the family and haven’t been abandoned.
Seniors often dislike change. However, they may no longer be able to live alone. When they must transition to assisted living, family members should be there to help. With the support of their families, seniors won’t feel intimidated. They can see this as a positive change that will allow them to enjoy life to the fullest.
